"DISABLED" ISN'T A BAD WORD

Words only carry the meaning we as a society attach to them. That’s how stigmas are created. Therefore, no word is inherently bad until we attach meaning and context to it. It is important to note that words evolve over time and change meaning based on societal views and world events. For example, there was a time when “retard” and “cripple” were not derogatory terms like they are now.

Like anything that has to do with one’s identity, it is ultimately up to each individual to decide what they are comfortable with. I’d love to hear your perspective. 

Over the past few years, I’ve noticed a shift in the word “disabled.” Generally speaking, there seems to be a push for the preferred language to be “disabled person” when referring to someone with a disability. 

Until very recently, I disagreed with that movement and would have told you that ideally I would like person first language to be used (I.e., person with a disability). 

After researching and talking to friends, I can now see both sides. 

The big (let’s be honest) part of myself that wants distance from my disability prefers person with a disability. The problem is that there shouldn’t need to be distance. There’s no need to sugarcoat and say things like “special needs” either. My disability is as much a part of me as everything else I have to offer. 

The part of myself that wants to be proud of my body says I should embrace the word. 

Some believe that distancing ourselves from the word leads to a negative societal perception, whereas embracing the world leads to pride and acceptance. 

I understand that this divide, specifically coming from the able-bodied community, has a lot to do with discomfort, ignorance, and/or not wanting to offend. Still, either way you spin it, I’m disabled. It isn’t a bad word unless you make it one.

Don’t make it weird.